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rokas2260, Halle (Saale), 17 - total posts: 20
Seems like nearly everyone on this site and let me just say that mostly girls seem to be bored here, I mean I'm all up for equality and judge all you want me for this but so far nearly every girl that I ever met is bored in one or the other way without actually having any hobbies on doing anything..

So it's like whenever someone writes "bored, hmu" or anything in that field, you can easily assume that you the chat with that person wont be fun, that you're gonna have to hold the chat weather you like it or not, and that the person that is bored will not show any interest in you unless you try so unbelievably hard to impress the bored person..

I feel like this site is gonna soon trigger me about the way people are living and how disgusting it is some times to be a human and know that there are others who are acting complete annoyingly like that..

And for sure the next questions that some people may be having, well why doesn't any chat go good for me, and maybe that is why, because the other person doesn't try because he or she is bored and knows that with their looks they will find someone who will try hard for them and then at some point dump their hard work too.. - Oct 26 2018
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TripDelic, Mexico City, 19 - total posts: 32
No one is obligated on this site to do anything from the get go, from my experience most people I've talked to merely browse and go. And if you do argue "well why the hell are they here if they're only spending minutes at a time seeing messages and leaving" you are absolutely justified in doing so but know that no one is going to bend to the needs of another, some of these people are bored from the get go and thus they're here on this site in the first place, to kill time. At this point you shouldn't take it so seriously and think of it as a cesspool for hormones and ***posts, almost, ALMOST like reddit. You will find the oddball norm here and there and get a decent conversation but you really shouldn't be expecting much. If the person you were trying to text had a status saying to hmu because of their impending disinterest in other things and there's nothing you did that changed that attitude, you move on. No "good" chat exists unless both ends aren't under the basis of "well what do you want to talk about" pretty crimson flag right there that it might not go anywhere. - Oct 26 2018
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rokas2260, Halle (Saale), 17 - total posts: 20
And your answer just tells me why this site is so sad in the first place, I don't want to force people nor have them be forced to be interesting or anything but it's like hundreds upon hundreds the same person over and over again, it's really fascinating in the end to come across so many people that are basically feel more like NPC's than actual human beings who want to kill their boredom in an actual way instead of whatever they propose in the first place which is nothing.. So yeah, I agree with ya on pretty much everything, this ain't reddit either so.. eh, probably gonna try to attempt to find another site that is maybe some what better than this, if it's even possible - Oct 26 2018
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Persephone-, Pittsburgh, 20 - total posts: 32
If you want to have conversations with deep people, then you're on the wrong site. These are teenagers, online, chatting with strangers, looking for "friends" or a "relationship" so assuming they know how to socialize properly is way off.

You'll find a few who are actually interesting and have the ability to adapt to conversations in a way that is beneficial to both participants. Many of the users on this site are superficial and won't make any sort of effort unless they're talking to someone they view as attractive.

That's why I never use this site to talk to anyone and haven't in a long time. So much more rewarding to meet people in real life and build bonds with them. - Jan 2 2019
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Landon2, Forest, 14 - total posts: 23
I actually found some deep teenagers. - Jan 7 2019
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Landon2, Forest, 14 - total posts: 23
Just check out my quiz - Jan 7 2019
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