In my eyes the perfect girlfriend would be kind, sweet, compassionate with a love of living things. She would care for others not because of anything they did (although doing good things would be nice) but rather because they are a living being. She would enjoy singing and music, having a particular liking to classical and enjoyable pop but still have an appreciation for all forms of music. She could understand the value of the things people do and be grateful for all of the things we have. Since this is my personal answer, she would probably take a liking to guys who are much more calm and reserved(such as myself). She would always be open to new opinions but she would also defend her own. She would be pretty, but not too pretty or too obsessed with it. I use this term very lightly because I am mainly talking about those who drown their face in makeup but that's not the point. She would also love trying new things and going to new places, just exploring the world.
What's important about that answer is that barely anyone out their exists like that. Everyone has their own personal flaws and values and that's what makes us different. There also can't be a perfect thing because of preference and opinion and that is just fine! That is why that would seem like extremely high expectations, but nobody should expect that of anyone. By the way, sorry for the 200 page novel but I just get into my writing sometimes you know? - Jun 12 2019
Great sense of humor who would laugh at all my corny jokes, kind and loving towards all, a little clingy and a little jealous (But not so much that she's controlling). Will listen to me for hours when I'm excited about something I'm passionate about, without trying to interrupt me or be on her phone. Will listen to what I have to say. Higher level of intelligence, common sense, and maybe street smarts. Compassionate. Vegan. Kinky, but not sexually driven. Isn't worried what others think of her, and can have a really fun time without being embarrassed. Open minded and accepting. - Jun 12 2019