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RahulG, Delhi, 18 - total posts: 4
I just wanna convey that love is not a game. It's a feeling. It's an emotion. Don't play with it.
If you love me, I will love you but there's a condition that your love should be real.
I always try to make my close ones happy. I expect this from you too - Dec 4 2019
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NinjaForest, Columbus, 18 - total posts: 81
Love is a game, the only real way to win is not to play. You must make the proper move to get the person who you care about to do the same, you must adjust yourself to be whom they need, and you are in a different mindset compared to when you are single. You try and ensure that you are successful and have a good relationship for as long as possible. There is things that work for some people, but you need to learn each different person and how they wish to be treated, everything that they want to do. Love is a game and an emotion. Either way, you almost always have skin in the game. - Dec 4 2019
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RahulG, Delhi, 18 - total posts: 4
So true. Thanks bro for making it more clear to me - Dec 5 2019
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NinjaForest, Columbus, 18 - total posts: 81
Ignorance implies that I do not know what I am talking about. While I might have a very pessimistic outlook on it, what I say is true. How much of an ass do you have to be to lie to people and say "Love is a commitment to someone or something you have compassion for?" That is not love, as that is just devotion. A blind devotion looks like love because you might care for who you are with and would follow them to the ends of the earth to protect them, but that just shows dedication. Love is trying to give them the best, even if the best would hurt. Love can be crudely analyzed as chess due to how much sacrifice you have to do to ensure the best. If you are so devoted to treating someone well, you will stick with them through anything as to be by their side. If you truly love and care about someone, you will understand when you are needed and if you even are a proper fit.
I love my girlfriend, but I also do the mental chess with her to see what she finds to be the best option. If she claims she needs support, I will be there to help, but if she just wants help on her schooling, I will be right by her side teaching her as best as I can. If she wants space, she has it and as devoted as I am, my love shines through in just trying to help her become a better person in her own eyes. Seeing her eyes light up whenever I call her beautiful and trying to help her see herself as beautiful, being body positive is my love and all my efforts.

So it is not ignorance, nor is it pessimism. It is a cold hard fact. Love is a game, where the end goal is to make sure that the best happens to the one you care about, even if you aren't that best. I might not be the best for my girlfriend, but we are in an open relationship, so I just need to be the best in certain areas. I would rather be open and honest with people and have them realize that love isn't just "Oh we have love! We care a lot about each other, we are so dedicated and devoted to the other!" and it is like a game of mental chess, with each player aiming to make sure the other one is the best that they can be. - Dec 6 2019
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Persephone-, Llanfairpwllgwyngyll, 20 - total posts: 35
Most people don't realize what love even is. Every day people say they love something of theirs or something that exists; often times they apply the same love to people in their loves.

Love is without condition and love is painful, but its beautiful.
Waiting until you've found the right person saves a lot of drama. - Dec 19 2019
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