So, I'm not sure if this is a confession, but there's this person in my class. They use the pronouns they/them, and are male (I think. I haven't asked, because I thought it would be rude.) At first glance, I thought they were a female, but I didn't know how to double check without asking and sounding rude. But they looked cute, and I'm still sorta confused. I'm not gay, and have never been attracted to men, but they are most likely male, (and have said to me that they like women), but they also look pretty feminine (in my opinion). We also have lots in common, and they're really fun to hangout with in that class. What do I do? What exactly is this feeling? - Modified on:  Apr 4 2023

I also have a lesbian friend, and she is very nice, and we have commonalities, and this does not mean that I love her as a lover, but rather as a normal friend - May 9 2023

Go for it. Don't worry about what sexuality you fall under. If you like them, ask em out. - Aug 15 2023