A real man, which does not mean having a 12 inch d**k. It means honesty, self respect, the willingness to take chances, the ability to flirt and not feel awkward about it. You know the classic guy goes to work, the woman cleans the house and buys groceries and when the guy comes home his woman, she makes him feel good. I want that, the good old days. When life was simple. I don't want you to have sex with me everyday but I also don't want just a kiss on the cheek every once and a while. Let's have something real. Be a real man, not a player.